A remembrance of things past
I was on my way to work at McKinsey & Co., in
As I rounded the corner, I saw the intended target, a young girl of about five. Oh my god, the poor child flashed through my head, just as I was blinded by a punch. “Don’t you look at my child!” she screamed. Suddenly I was it. I saw her daughter race to the corner and stop, looking back. From the feel of the punch the woman was built like a
When you’re threatened you’re on hyper-alert. Your senses are at a peak, time stops, your eyes widen and see every minutiae. Unexpectedly I saw a man cross the street.
Oh, oh. Now I’ve really had it. Two against one.
“Hey, be cool,” he said to the Sherman Tank. “Just let it go.” Her shoulders slumped, but she had to have the last word. “White slut,” she said as she walked away.
Thanking the man, I left with relief, still corporate, my dress unwrinkled, my hair in place. I did have to explain to my boss why I had a black eye, and to this day I wonder what happened to the little girl. A friend, who was a psychologist, asked my why I didn’t report it and have the woman thrown in jail. I often think my friend was unrealistic. Parents aren’t jailed for calling their children names; they’re jailed for beating them up. The girl had to live with her mother. I could have made things worse for her. I do know that I set an example. I showed the girl that others can stand up to her mother and not be bullied. I hope she remembered that growing up.
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